# Porterhome > PorterHome Welcome to PorterHome.com! This is the home for the Porter family – Matthew, Courtney, Avery, Gabriel, and Owen. About Us Mission Statement We have a debt to those before --- ## Posts - [Living Longer, Living Uncertain: The Mental Health Paradox of Modern Multiple Sclerosis Treatment](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2025/11/living-longer-living-uncertain-the-mental-health-paradox-of-modern-multiple-sclerosis-treatment/): This blog post has probably been the most difficult to draft. It runs the risk of being misinterpreted as a... - [Eleven Years: What MS Has Taught Me About Time, Probability, and Purpose](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2025/09/eleven-years-what-ms-has-taught-me-about-time-probability-and-purpose/): Eleven years with MS has taught me that life is rarely good or bad in itself. It is uncertain, often... - [Measuring Relationships: Walk, Bike, Car, or Plane?](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2025/09/measuring-relationships-walk-bike-car-or-plane/): The author reflects on the value of mentorship and understanding relationships through a transportation analogy. Relationships can be categorized by... - [The Real Source of Confidence: Why Power Over Yourself Comes First](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2025/06/the-real-source-of-confidence-why-power-over-yourself-comes-first/): Confidence is a topic I never envisioned writing about, considering my previous struggle with it. My insights are personal reflections... - [Uncertainty Is Not the Enemy](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2025/06/uncertainty-is-not-the-enemy/): Research shows that people often underestimate their resilience and overestimate the impact of uncertainty on well-being. While fear of the... - [The Silent Resignation of A-Players](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2025/05/the-silent-resignation-of-a-players/): A-Players are self-motivated individuals who consistently drive results and seek growth. When paired with C-Players, they may initially perform well... - [Conflict Avoidance? Nope, It Is Actually Ignorance & It Damages Relationships](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2025/04/conflict-avoidance-nope-it-is-actually-ignorance-it-damages-relationships/): In the past few weeks, the topic of avoiding conflict has come up more than once with people I coach... - [How A Lawsuit Forced Me To Be A Better Leader (and Less of a Dick-tator)](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2025/03/how-a-lawsuit-forced-me-to-be-a-better-leader-2/): A lawsuit in 2012 prompted a shift from micromanagement to empowerment, highlighting the importance of trusting team members and focusing... - [The Gift of Imperfection: Parenting Beyond the Myth of Infallibility - Hero or Editor](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2025/03/the-gift-of-imperfection-parenting-beyond-the-myth-of-infallibility-hero-or-editor/): Reflections on the contrast between childhood perceptions of parental perfection and adult realizations about the value of authenticity in parenting.... - [Why Productive Friction Is Essential for Stronger Teams, Marriages, and Families](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2025/02/why-productive-friction-is-essential-for-stronger-teams-marriages-and-families/): Productive friction is essential for collaborative success in various contexts, distinguishing between tactical and relationship conflict. Tactical conflict fosters innovation... - [Moving Beyond Cynicism: Harvesting a Non-Net Sum Zero Life](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2025/01/moving-beyond-cynicism-harvesting-a-non-net-sum-zero-life/): The blog post discusses the contrast between Net Sum Zero and Non-Net Sum Zero belief systems regarding success and resources.... - [Why Great Leaders (Are Like Coders and) Fall in Love with Problems](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2025/01/why-great-leaders-are-like-coders-and-fall-in-love-with-problems/): The author expresses a deep passion for problem-solving, rooted in a love for coding. They argue that seeing problems as... - [Work-Life Balance Is Bullshit or A Lie](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/10/work-life-balance-is-bullshit-or-a-lie/): The author reflects on the challenges of work-life balance, arguing it is an unrealistic and damaging goal. Instead, they advocate... - [Why I Started Blogging Again: A Journey Through Parenthood](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/09/why-i-started-blogging-again-a-journey-through-parenthood/): The author reflects on the evolving parent-child relationship and their motivation to blog. Each parenting stage is likened to a... - [10 Years with MS: The Obstacle is the Way](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/09/10-years-with-ms-the-obstacle-is-the-way/): On the tenth anniversary of my multiple sclerosis diagnosis, the author reflects on the journey and lessons learned over the... - [Family Strategic Planning: Developing Our Mission and Core Values](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/08/family-strategic-planning-developing-our-mission-and-core-values/): Years ago, strategic planning was crucial for my business, but I neglected it for my family. A wake-up call from... - [Net Sum Zero vs. Non-Net Sum Zero: Two Fundamental Belief Systems](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/08/net-sum-zero-vs-non-net-sum-zero-two-fundamental-belief-systems/): Beliefs shape our reality and influence success and relationships. There are two mindsets: Net Sum Zero (belief in scarcity) and... - [The Pitfalls of Startup Competitions: Grants vs. Equity](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/08/the-pitfalls-of-startup-competitions-grants-vs-equity/): Startup competitions have become a vital component of the entrepreneurial ecosystem, providing nascent businesses with essential funding, mentorship, and visibility.... - [The Future of MS: What Does A Cure Mean & Unintended Consequences ](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/07/the-future-of-ms-what-does-a-cure-mean-unintended-consequences/): The National Multiple Sclerosis Society has been undergoing a leadership change with the retirement of our previous CEO and the... - [Suspended Campaign and Gratitude: Navigating Leadership and Integrity](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/07/suspended-campaign-and-gratitude-navigating-leadership-and-integrity/): “We have a debt to those before us and an obligation to those after us. We maximize life and potential... - [The Gift of Reflection: What Happens If You Write Down What Someone Means to You?](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/06/the-gift-of-reflection-what-happens-if-you-write-down-what-someone-means-to-you/): On my youngest child's 18th birthday, I handed him three small notebooks, continuing a family tradition. For a year, I... - [The Power of Giving: Networking Advice for All Ages](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/05/the-power-of-giving-networking-advice-for-all-ages/): ## The Essence of Networking Recently, I've been asked for networking advice by the younger generation, prompting me to reflect... - [You Aren’t Micro Managing. You Are Probably F*cking Bullying.](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/02/you-arent-micro-managing-you-are-probably-fcking-bullying/): The author confesses to being a former micromanager and recovering bully. Micromanagers are likened to bullies due to their behavior... - [The Waiting Game: A Closer Look at In-Office Times](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/02/the-waiting-game-a-closer-look-at-in-office-times/): In healthcare, patients endure excessive waits, with 97% facing over 25 minutes of delay in 2022. This not only heightens... - [The Devil's Vortex: How To Kill Scaling & Your Soul](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/01/the-devils-vortex-how-to-kill-scaling-amp-your-soul/): In the ever-evolving landscape of entrepreneurship and leadership, there lurks a hidden peril known as the "Devil's Vortex. " This... - [Life and Poker: A Parallel in Risk and Strategy](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/12/life-and-poker-a-parallel-in-risk-and-strategy/): In conversations with my team and my children, I often draw parallels between the strategies of life and poker. This... - [More Than Just the Right Person in the Right Seat (aka Why You Are Only Getting a 40% On This Test)](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/11/more-than-just-the-right-person-in-the-right-seat-aka-why-you-are-only-getting-a-40-on-this-test/): In the realm of corporate recruitment, the commonly espoused idea of finding the "right person for the right seat on... - [How the World Gets It Wrong: When A Person Is Devalued](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/10/how-the-world-gets-it-wrong-when-a-person-is-devalued/): In a world where time is irreplaceable, and material assets are easily quantifiable, what happens when your most intimate asset—your... - [The Endurance of Care: Why Treating the Person Matters in Health, Business, and Beyond](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/10/the-endurance-of-care-why-treating-the-person-matters-in-health-business-and-beyond/): In a world often hyper-focused on quick fixes and narrow solutions, this post explores the profound necessity of treating individuals... - [Quit Bankrupting Your Business: The Value of Time in Growing a Business](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/10/quit-bankrupting-your-business-the-value-of-time-in-growing-a-business/): In the hustle and bustle of the world, time is often the most overlooked resource. Yet, it is the one... - [The People Behind the Brand: Crafting a Compelling Narrative Through Talent](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/09/the-people-behind-the-brand-crafting-a-compelling-narrative-through-talent/): In a world where consumers are bombarded with countless brands vying for their attention, what makes a brand truly stand... - [Unacceptable vs. Undesirable: A Crucial Distinction](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/09/unacceptable-vs-undesirable-a-crucial-distinction/): Over a decade ago, I found myself wrestling with a challenging business decision. A customer, experiencing rapid growth, requested additional... - [Entrepreneurship in My Hometown: Saint Louis’s Spirit of Independence and Neighborly Help](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/08/entrepreneurship-in-my-hometown-saint-louiss-spirit-of-independence-and-neighborly-help/): Nestled along the Mississippi’s graceful arcs lies Saint Louis, Missouri. A city I almost left, yet a city that tethered... - [Life’s Natural Rhythms: Expansion, Contraction, and Concentration](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/08/lifes-natural-rhythms-expansion-contraction-and-concentration/): Recently, Gabe asked me if I had any advice before he headed off to college, a question almost every parent... - [The Art of Writing Effective Board of Director Reports: A Future, Present, Past Narrative](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/08/the-art-of-writing-effective-board-of-director-reports-a-future-present-past-narrative/): A few years back, a peer saw a copy of a Board of Directors report I submitted as CEO of... - [Unmasking Dissent: Loyalty in Disguise](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/05/unmasking-dissent-loyalty-in-disguise/): Breaking the Ice: Bridging Dissent and Loyalty If you’ve ever found yourself holding back a contrary opinion at work, or... - [Rethinking the December Rush: Why December Strategic Planning Is Probably Ineffective & Lacks Compassion](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/05/december-strategic-planning-is-probably-ineffective-lacks-compassion/): Every year, the holiday season rolls around, and with it often comes the daunting task of annual strategic planning. Traditionally... - [Forgiveness and Apologies](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/02/forgiveness-and-apologies/): You don’t wanna know my hurt, yeahLet me guess, you want an apology, probably – “Let You Down”, NF Recently,... - [Evolution of Why](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2022/07/evolution-of-why/): I have read Simon Sinek’s book Start with Why: How Great Leaders Inspire Everyone to Take Action and watched his... - [Prevalent Emotion During These Unprecedented Times](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2020/04/prevalent-emotion-during-these-unprecedented-times/): The world is on lockdown. The stock market is volatile. Unemployment has set multiple records and not in a good... - [Pain Is Also Contagious](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2020/03/pain-is-also-contagious/): In 2016, neuroscientists published a paper entitled, “Social Transfer of Pain In Mice” in Science Advances. The experiment tested pain... - [OK, Boomer... We Need You, and You Need Us](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2020/03/ok-boomer-we-need-you-and-you-need-us/): The modern workplace entered a new phase a few years ago. For the first time in history, we have five... - [MS Awareness Week 2020 – Day 7 #ThisIsMS](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2020/03/ms-awareness-week-2020-day-7-thisisms/): So, how does one end a week of posting about a life with multiple sclerosis? That’s the question I have... - [MS Awareness Week 2020 – Day 6 #ThisIsMS](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2020/03/ms-awareness-week-2020-day-6-thisisms/): A few weeks ago, I fell while running. It was a nasty fall and worse than I thought. I didn’t... - [MS Awareness Week 2020 – Day 5 #ThisIsMS](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2020/03/ms-awareness-week-2020-day-5-thisisms/): Husband, father, volunteer, and CEO. These are a few of the roles that define me. My MS is not one... - [MS Awareness Week 2020 – Day 4 #ThisIsMS](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2020/03/ms-awareness-week-2020-day-4-thisisms/): GRAPHIC! I don’t want to give the impression that MS is easy for me or anyone. I am blessed &... - [MS Awareness Week 2020 – Day 3 #ThisIsMS](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2020/03/ms-awareness-week-2020-day-3-thisisms/): Today was my 200th class at OrangeTheory Fitness. I started 16 months ago to supplement my running & personal trainer.... - [MS Awareness Week 2020 - Day 2 #ThisIsMS](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2020/03/ms-awareness-week-2020-day-2-thisisms/): As part of my treatment, I incur weekly injections. How funny? I once tore apart a treatment room at a... - [MS Awareness Week 2020 - Day 1 #ThisIsMS](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2020/03/ms-awareness-week-2020-day-1-thisisms/): Today is the start of MS Awareness Week. It was a hard decision to become public about having MS for... - [Why I Referenced Anne Frank to My Kids As They Start School](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2019/08/why-i-referenced-anne-frank-to-my-kids-as-they-start-school/): Two of our three kids have already started school. Those two are Gabe and Owen who will be in separate... - [From Squishy to Ultramarathons & The One Critical Lesson I Learned](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2019/04/from-squishy-to-ultramarathons-the-one-critical-lesson-i-learned/): “Not every end is the goal. The end of a melody is not its goal; and yet: as long as... - [Wim Hof Expedition: Post-Freeze Recap](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2019/02/wim-hof-expedition-post-freeze-recap/): “Why are you here? What made you come all the way to Poland to walk into freezing water and hike... - [Do You Know Your 100 Miles? (Not Running Related)](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2019/01/do-you-know-your-100-miles/): In light of the recent CEO announcement for Contegix, I decided it was to resurrect this draft blog post. The... - [Stay On The Bike - The One Rule](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2019/01/stay-on-the-bike-the-one-rule/): “There is only one rule. You can’t give up. ” This is the advice I give someone when diagnosed with... - [Leadville Trail 100 Run 2018 - Post Race Report](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2018/09/leadville-trail-100-race-2018-post-race-report/): I started drafting this blog post on the Monday following the Leadville Trail 100 Race. I felt I owed it... - [(Instant) Email Replies Are Destroying Relationships](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2018/03/instant-email-replies-are-destroying-relationships/): A few weeks ago, I blogged about why I think people should spend less time on email. I discussed some... - [Get Off Your Fucking Email](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2018/02/get-off-fucking-email/): I recently wrote about how I was a panelist for EO Accelerator. In that post, I discussed how there are... - [The Tale of Two Journals, One Marriage, and Four Lessons](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2017/12/tale-two-journals-one-marriage-four-lessons/): A few years back, I attempted to write one thing per day that I appreciated and loved about my wife,... - [Want to Help Others? Default to Experience Sharing & Cross That Line](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2017/10/want-help-others-default-experience-sharing-cross-line/): A few days ago, I was on a panel for early-stage entrepreneurs. This was for the EO Accelerator program. Each... - [Feedback, Thoughts, and Q&A From "Oh, And I Have Multiple Sclerosis"](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2017/10/feedback-thoughts-qa-oh-multiple-sclerosis/): When I posted “Oh, and I Have Multiple Sclerosis”, I had one hope – to share my story in an... - [Oh, and I Have Multiple Sclerosis](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2017/09/oh-multiple-sclerosis/): I am a (doting, loving) father. I am a (faithful, nightly cuddling, giddy) husband. I am an (intensely loyal) friend.... - [In Defense of Daylight Savings](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2017/03/defense-daylight-savings/): I have been thinking about daylight savings the past few weeks as it approached. Most articles, blog posts, Facebook updates,... - [Leadville 2016 - Post-Race Report](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2016/09/leadville-2016-post-race-report/): We have a debt to those before us and an obligation to those that come after us. We maximize life... - [Contegix Volunteer Program: 16 in ’16](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2016/02/contegix-volunteer-program-16-in-16/): Up until a few years ago, I had always disliked the charity pictures of a company representative, usually the CEO... - [Leadville Trail 100 Recap - Why I'll Return to Leadville](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2015/08/leadville-trail-100-recap-why-ill-return-to-leadville/): Two weekends ago, I had the opportunity to crew and pace a friend, Jeffrey, making his second attempt to run... - [Cloud Understanding & Adaptation Are A Shared Responsibility](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2015/08/cloud-understanding-adaptation-are-a-shared-responsibility/): Recently, Forbes published an article on cloud computing, its popularity, and whether it is ready for prime time. While the... - [It’s the Little Things](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2015/07/its-the-little-things/): I have lately been thinking about everything we have built at Contegix. We have accelerated the pace of innovation significantly... - [Companies To Admire](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2015/05/companies-to-admire/): I was recently asked the question “What companies do you admire? ” In the technology industry, it would be easy... - [Definition of “Service” and Our Industry](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2014/05/definition-of-service-and-our-industry/): Contegix’s industry has gone through a series of name changes in the past 20 years. We have gone from being... - [Google, True Leadership and The Who of a Contegian](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2014/03/google-true-leadership-and-the-who-of-a-contegian/): Last month, the New York Times published an op-ed by Thomas Friedman titled “How to Get a Job at Google“.... - [Customer Complaints Are Healthy](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2013/11/customer-complaints-are-healthy/): Having a successful business hopefully means having customer accolades and cheers. It also means customer complaints. Thanks to our amazing... - [CIO Survey : Cloud Is Top Priority & Costs In Focus](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2013/07/cio-survey-cloud-is-top-priority-costs-in-focus/): Compuware recently commissioned a survey of 468 CIOs. The report, published by Research In Action, showed that nearly 2/3 of... - [Shall We Play A Game?](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2013/04/shall-we-play-a-game/): I am surprised that there are still companies that employ “the enterprise sales process” . We often see this employed... - [Focus on the Five Percent](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2012/11/focus-on-the-five-percent/): For most companies, 95 percent of what they do is what EVERY company has to do – build and service... - [Five Questions for Family Dinner.](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2012/11/five-questions-for-family-dinner/): When it was time for dinner, Courtney and I sit with our kids and want to know how each of... - [Video: How Linux is Built](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2012/07/video-how-linux-is-built/): Many people often don’t know how much technology impacts our everyday lives. Read More → - [Children As Truth and Inspiration](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2012/06/children-as-truth-and-inspiration/): A number of family and friends know this story already. It’s time to write it down for posterity’s sake and... - [The Cloud and the Balance Between CFO and CIO/CTO](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2012/06/the-cloud-and-the-balance-between-cfo-and-ciocto/): One of the most interesting aspects of the rise of cloud the past few years is the balance between the... - [Ad Redux](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2012/05/ad-redux/): There was once a small, innovative company who was first in their field. They had built a product out of... - [Tech Companies in Saint Louis - Going and Growing](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2012/05/tech-companies-in-saint-louis-going-and-growing/): The past few years in Saint Louis have been interesting to watch. When Craig and I started the parent company... - [MiraCloud- CloudStack and The Commitment to Open Source](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2012/04/miracloud-cloudstack-and-the-commitment-to-open-source/): Contegix has always been a service company. We utilize and embrace core, foundational technology to deliver technology as a service... - [A Lesson on Leadership from a Chick-Fil-A Manager](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2011/07/a-lesson-on-leadership-from-a-chick-fil-a-manager/): One thing I love about suburbia is Chick-Fil-A. Thankfully, one recently opened up near our house which has led to... - [All Begins with The First Ring or Email](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2011/02/all-begins-with-the-first-ring-or-email/): Trust is a foundational aspect of our relationship with each and every customer. Read More → - [2011 New Year Resolutions](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2011/01/2011-new-year-resolutions/): A little late but better than never. I really wanted to think about this and examine the impact before committing.... - [DRY - How I Became Healthier and Lighter, and Experience A "High" A Few Times A Week](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2011/01/dry-how-i-became-healthier-and-lighter-and-experience-a-high-a-few-times-a-week/): Sadly, I had not focused on my health the past few years. The crazy hours between 3 kids and a... - [A VIEW FROM THE (NON) CORNER OFFICE: Programmers, You Need the Sysadmin. And Vice Versa.](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2010/07/a-view-from-the-non-corner-office-programmers-you-need-the-sysadmin-and-vice-versa/): In honor of System Administrator Appreciation Day, I decided to revisit an article from last year regarding the role of... - [Daily Grateful - Newspaper Delivery](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2010/06/daily-grateful-newspaper-delivery/): One of the biggest lessons I learned the EO MIT Entrepreneurial Masters Program was from one of the last instructors/teachers/presenters,... - [Lifetime Goals (aka Bucket List)](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2010/06/lifetime-goals-aka-bucket-list/): I was on retreat a few weeks back. As part of the retreat, I had to set some lifetime goals,... - [Cloud Templates – What Do You Want To See?](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2009/11/cloud-templates-what-do-you-want-to-see/): When we began building Contegix, we realized it was always about the applications. Read More → - [Time To Get Back To Blogging](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2009/10/time-to-get-back-to-blogging/): After humping it for quite a few years with family and Contegix, it is now time to get back to... - [Upgraded to Wordpress MU 1.5.1](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2008/08/upgraded-to-wordpress-mu-151/): Just upgraded this WordPress blog to 1. 5. 1 which is based upon the 2. 5. 1 WordPress codebase. While... - [Dear Apple Fanatic Lemmings...](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2008/05/dear-apple-fanatic-lemmings/): So, apparently people are lining up at the New York Apple Store. This is the same store that has been... - [UFC Match: iPhone vs. Kitchen Floor](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2008/04/ufc-match-iphone-vs-kitchen-floor/): Tonight, my iPhone encountered a stronger opponent – the kitchen floor. While bringing in the milk from Oberweis, I dropped... - [Saint Louis Entrepreneurs, Where Are You?](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2008/04/saint-louis-entrepreneurs-where-are-you/): The past few weeks, I have searching for Saint Louis enterpreneurs to attend a happy hour this Thursday. The event... - [EO Accelerator & Company Values](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2008/04/eo-accelerator-company-values/): Last year, I was invited to become a member of Entrepreneus’ Organization (EO), a global community of business owners. While... - [Dear TiVo, We Had Some Good Times But I Need to Move On](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2008/03/dear-tivo-we-had-some-good-times-but-i-need-to-move-on/): In November 2006, we purchased a high definition Panasonic 42″ plasma television for our family room. Our crappy 22 inch... - [The Joy of Travel... Or How American Airlines and Marriott Want To Kill Me](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2008/02/the-joy-of-travel-or-how-american-airlines-and-marriott-want-to-kill-me/): Ah, travel. It’s one of those ideas that seems really sexy when you are younger. See new places, meet new... - [Obama, Train Your Campaign Callers : "I am not asking for your vote. I am asking for your money."](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2008/01/obama-train-your-campaign-callers-i-am-not-asking-for-your-vote-i-am-asking-for-your-money/): Choosing a political party has always been a difficult task for me. I am fiscally conservative but am relatively socially... - [Applying for a Job - A How-NOT-To](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2007/12/applying-for-a-job-a-how-not-to/): We recently advertised for a new administrative assistant. This person will have contact with our customers and have some minimal... - [Monster.com - Spamming Recruiters](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2007/06/monstercom-spamming-recruiters/): A few weeks back, we posted a job opening on Monster. com. We have found some truly great employees through... - [Missing Dog - Status Update](https://porterhome.com/matthew/2007/05/missing-dog-status-update/): A number of people have asked about whether we found Ike and how the family is coping with the loss.... --- ## Pages - [🛠 What I’m Doing Now (July 2025)](https://porterhome.com/matthew/now/): The author shares updates from a vacation in Hilton Head Island, emphasizing family values as his children transition to adulthood.... - [Contact](https://porterhome.com/contact/): Let’s talk 👋 Don’t hesitate to reach out with the contact information below, or send a message using the form.... - [Home](https://porterhome.com/): PorterHome Welcome to PorterHome. com! 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It is uncertain, often answered only with “maybe.” Within that uncertainty, I have found clarity: to guard my time, honor my priorities, and live our family mission of Mostest. --- - Published: 2025-09-10 - Modified: 2025-09-10 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2025/09/measuring-relationships-walk-bike-car-or-plane/ The author reflects on the value of mentorship and understanding relationships through a transportation analogy. Relationships can be categorized by the willingness to help, from walking to flying, revealing emotional investment and priorities. This framework aids in navigating connections, fostering intentionality in nurturing those that truly matter. --- - Published: 2025-06-26 - Modified: 2025-06-26 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2025/06/the-real-source-of-confidence-why-power-over-yourself-comes-first/ --- - Published: 2025-06-02 - Modified: 2025-06-02 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2025/06/uncertainty-is-not-the-enemy/ Research shows that people often underestimate their resilience and overestimate the impact of uncertainty on well-being. While fear of the unknown, such as with multiple sclerosis, is common, uncertainty is a constant in life. Embracing this reality allows for better decision-making and adaptability, fostering resilience in the face of life's unpredictability. --- - Published: 2025-05-06 - Modified: 2025-05-06 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2025/05/the-silent-resignation-of-a-players/ A-Players are self-motivated individuals who consistently drive results and seek growth. When paired with C-Players, they may initially perform well but eventually downshift due to the lack of accountability from leadership. This leads to self-doubt, resentment, and the likelihood of leaving. Leaders must address performance issues to retain top talent. --- - Published: 2025-04-15 - Modified: 2025-04-15 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2025/04/conflict-avoidance-nope-it-is-actually-ignorance-it-damages-relationships/ --- - Published: 2025-03-24 - Modified: 2025-03-24 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2025/03/how-a-lawsuit-forced-me-to-be-a-better-leader-2/ A lawsuit in 2012 prompted a shift from micromanagement to empowerment, highlighting the importance of trusting team members and focusing on strategic vision. This painful experience led to personal growth, improved leadership, and stronger organizational dynamics, ultimately fostering innovation and autonomy. --- - Published: 2025-03-03 - Modified: 2025-03-03 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2025/03/the-gift-of-imperfection-parenting-beyond-the-myth-of-infallibility-hero-or-editor/ Reflections on the contrast between childhood perceptions of parental perfection and adult realizations about the value of authenticity in parenting. By embracing vulnerability and openly discussing mistakes, parents can model resilience and growth for their children. This approach fosters emotional resilience and emphasizes that personal development is more important than an image of flawlessness. --- - Published: 2025-02-18 - Modified: 2025-02-18 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2025/02/why-productive-friction-is-essential-for-stronger-teams-marriages-and-families/ Productive friction is essential for collaborative success in various contexts, distinguishing between tactical and relationship conflict. Tactical conflict fosters innovation and creativity by focusing on tasks, while relationship conflict disrupts productivity and trust. Encouraging constructive debate and maintaining focus on shared goals can enhance outcomes in both professional and personal settings. --- - Published: 2025-01-27 - Modified: 2025-01-27 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2025/01/moving-beyond-cynicism-harvesting-a-non-net-sum-zero-life/ The blog post discusses the contrast between Net Sum Zero and Non-Net Sum Zero belief systems regarding success and resources. It emphasizes the importance of collaboration, abundance, and overcoming cynicism to foster community and personal growth. The author advocates for a mindset shift towards shared success and connections for overall well-being. --- - Published: 2025-01-13 - Modified: 2025-01-13 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2025/01/why-great-leaders-are-like-coders-and-fall-in-love-with-problems/ The author expresses a deep passion for problem-solving, rooted in a love for coding. They argue that seeing problems as opportunities fosters leadership and innovation. Embracing challenges leads to growth, as organizations become stronger by addressing issues. By adopting a mindset focused on solutions, leaders can create lasting impact and competitive advantage. --- - Published: 2024-10-22 - Modified: 2024-10-22 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/10/work-life-balance-is-bullshit-or-a-lie/ The author reflects on the challenges of work-life balance, arguing it is an unrealistic and damaging goal. Instead, they advocate for work-life integration, which acknowledges the interconnectedness of professional and personal responsibilities. By prioritizing health, family, and community, individuals can adapt to varying demands while maintaining focus on what truly matters. --- - Published: 2024-09-30 - Modified: 2024-09-30 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/09/why-i-started-blogging-again-a-journey-through-parenthood/ The author reflects on the evolving parent-child relationship and their motivation to blog. Each parenting stage is likened to a driving metaphor, highlighting a shift from control to independence as children grow. Blogging serves as a legacy, allowing the author to share insights with their adult children while also learning from them. --- - Published: 2024-09-26 - Modified: 2024-09-26 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/09/10-years-with-ms-the-obstacle-is-the-way/ On the tenth anniversary of my multiple sclerosis diagnosis, the author reflects on the journey and lessons learned over the decade. Gratitude for stability, the value of time, and the power of community emerge as key themes. Emphasizing growth, resilience, and the importance of asking for help, the author celebrates life fully. --- - Published: 2024-08-27 - Modified: 2024-08-27 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/08/family-strategic-planning-developing-our-mission-and-core-values/ Years ago, strategic planning was crucial for my business, but I neglected it for my family. A wake-up call from my mentor led me to develop our family's Mission and Core Values. Drawing from business experience, we reversed engineered our Mission and identified seven core values, ultimately transforming our family's direction and culture. --- - Published: 2024-08-19 - Modified: 2024-08-19 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/08/net-sum-zero-vs-non-net-sum-zero-two-fundamental-belief-systems/ Beliefs shape our reality and influence success and relationships. There are two mindsets: Net Sum Zero (belief in scarcity) and Non-Net Sum Zero (belief in abundance). Net Sum Zero fosters competition and fear; Non-Net Sum Zero embraces mutual success and abundance. Examples from Star Wars and real life illustrate these mindsets. Align with abundance for personal and mutual growth. --- - Published: 2024-08-05 - Modified: 2024-08-05 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/08/the-pitfalls-of-startup-competitions-grants-vs-equity/ --- - Published: 2024-07-25 - Modified: 2024-07-25 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/07/the-future-of-ms-what-does-a-cure-mean-unintended-consequences/ --- - Published: 2024-07-05 - Modified: 2024-07-12 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/07/suspended-campaign-and-gratitude-navigating-leadership-and-integrity/ --- - Published: 2024-06-05 - Modified: 2024-06-05 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/06/the-gift-of-reflection-what-happens-if-you-write-down-what-someone-means-to-you/ On my youngest child's 18th birthday, I handed him three small notebooks, continuing a family tradition. For a year, I wrote daily entries reflecting on the recipient, chronicling what I loved and admired about them. I had previously done something similar for my spouse and his siblings. This practice became a personal journey of growth, deepening my appreciation for my loved ones and strengthening our bonds. For my children, the notebooks also captured their transformation from adolescence to adulthood. --- - Published: 2024-05-13 - Modified: 2024-05-13 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/05/the-power-of-giving-networking-advice-for-all-ages/ ## The Essence of Networking Recently, I've been asked for networking advice by the younger generation, prompting me to reflect on my experiences. Networking, to me, is about connecting with others in meaningful ways that benefit both parties. It's not just about expanding your professional circle but fostering relationships that enhance your personal and professional life. So, what advice do I give? Give yourself. Whether through Young Professionals groups, charity board participation, user groups, or volunteering, the key to effective networking lies in genuine engagement and contribution. These connections have shaped my journey, and I hope to give as much as I have received along the way. --- - Published: 2024-02-19 - Modified: 2024-02-21 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/02/you-arent-micro-managing-you-are-probably-fcking-bullying/ The author confesses to being a former micromanager and recovering bully. Micromanagers are likened to bullies due to their behavior and impact on others. They are explained through the concepts of "The Disguised Attitude" and "The Blind Attitude," highlighting their insecurities and impact on team dynamics. The ideal leadership attitude, "The Confident Attitude," is presented as the goal for effective leadership. Transitioning to this attitude requires a growth mindset and valuing contributions equally. --- - Published: 2024-02-05 - Modified: 2024-02-05 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/02/the-waiting-game-a-closer-look-at-in-office-times/ In healthcare, patients endure excessive waits, with 97% facing over 25 minutes of delay in 2022. This not only heightens anxiety but also erodes precious moments, especially for those with chronic conditions. The healthcare system's inefficiency challenges professionals' Hippocratic Oath commitment, creating an ethical dilemma. This post examines the impact of wait times on patient well-being and suggests steps toward a more efficient healthcare model. --- - Published: 2024-01-15 - Modified: 2024-01-15 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2024/01/the-devils-vortex-how-to-kill-scaling-amp-your-soul/ In the ever-evolving landscape of entrepreneurship and leadership, there lurks a hidden peril known as the "Devil's Vortex." This daunting phenomenon represents the overwhelming challenges and burnout that leaders and entrepreneurs often face, yet many step into it willingly, unaware of its subtle entrapment. The Devil's Vortex is more than just a metaphorical hazard; it's a stark reality where one's efforts seem to spiral into chaos, yielding minimal impact. In contrast, the "Genius Zone" offers a sanctuary of productivity and satisfaction, where one's unique strengths and deepest passions intersect, creating a harmonious blend of success and fulfillment. --- - Published: 2023-12-12 - Modified: 2023-12-11 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/12/life-and-poker-a-parallel-in-risk-and-strategy/ --- - Published: 2023-11-13 - Modified: 2023-11-13 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/11/more-than-just-the-right-person-in-the-right-seat-aka-why-you-are-only-getting-a-40-on-this-test/ In the realm of corporate recruitment, the commonly espoused idea of finding the "right person for the right seat on the bus" is a well-known concept. However, Matthew Porter, a seasoned entrepreneur and former CEO, argues that this mantra, while valuable, only addresses two out of five critical components for successful hiring. He emphasizes that these two factors, though important, may not capture the depth needed for a successful employment relationship. Porter introduces a more comprehensive approach to recruitment that involves considering the right company, person, seat, time, and cost. He believes that companies should take responsibility for ensuring a genuine match between the organization and the candidate, emphasizing that it's not just about suitability but a deeper alignment of values, culture, and vision. --- - Published: 2023-10-30 - Modified: 2023-10-30 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/10/how-the-world-gets-it-wrong-when-a-person-is-devalued/ In a world where time is irreplaceable, and material assets are easily quantifiable, what happens when your most intimate asset—your talent—is undervalued or misunderstood? Talent is more than a skill; it's the essence of who you are. But what factors distort its value? Whether it's being evaluated in the wrong context, assessed based on incomplete information, or subject to someone else's insecurities, recognizing your true worth often requires finding the right place. --- - Published: 2023-10-23 - Modified: 2023-10-23 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/10/the-endurance-of-care-why-treating-the-person-matters-in-health-business-and-beyond/ In a world often hyper-focused on quick fixes and narrow solutions, this post explores the profound necessity of treating individuals as complete entities, especially in healthcare. Drawing from my own experience with multiple sclerosis, Stoic philosophy, and an endurance athlete's mindset, I argue for a comprehensive approach that considers emotional, physical, and psychological aspects of a person. This strategy, as it turns out, transcends healthcare and is vital for any service-oriented industry, including business. --- - Published: 2023-10-03 - Modified: 2023-10-03 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/10/quit-bankrupting-your-business-the-value-of-time-in-growing-a-business/ --- - Published: 2023-09-12 - Modified: 2023-09-19 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/09/the-people-behind-the-brand-crafting-a-compelling-narrative-through-talent/ --- - Published: 2023-09-05 - Modified: 2023-09-05 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/09/unacceptable-vs-undesirable-a-crucial-distinction/ --- - Published: 2023-08-21 - Modified: 2023-08-21 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/08/entrepreneurship-in-my-hometown-saint-louiss-spirit-of-independence-and-neighborly-help/ --- - Published: 2023-08-16 - Modified: 2023-08-16 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/08/lifes-natural-rhythms-expansion-contraction-and-concentration/ --- - Published: 2023-08-08 - Modified: 2023-08-08 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/08/the-art-of-writing-effective-board-of-director-reports-a-future-present-past-narrative/ --- - Published: 2023-05-30 - Modified: 2023-05-30 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/05/unmasking-dissent-loyalty-in-disguise/ --- - Published: 2023-05-22 - Modified: 2023-05-22 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/05/december-strategic-planning-is-probably-ineffective-lacks-compassion/ --- - Published: 2023-02-06 - Modified: 2023-02-06 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2023/02/forgiveness-and-apologies/ --- - Published: 2022-07-20 - Modified: 2022-07-19 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2022/07/evolution-of-why/ --- - Published: 2020-04-20 - Modified: 2020-04-20 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2020/04/prevalent-emotion-during-these-unprecedented-times/ --- - Published: 2020-03-24 - Modified: 2020-03-24 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2020/03/pain-is-also-contagious/ --- - Published: 2020-03-21 - Modified: 2020-03-21 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2020/03/ok-boomer-we-need-you-and-you-need-us/ --- - Published: 2020-03-14 - Modified: 2020-03-19 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2020/03/ms-awareness-week-2020-day-7-thisisms/ So, how does one end a week of posting about a life with multiple sclerosis? That’s the question I have been asking myself all week. To answer this, I thought back to why I stepped out to become public about my MS and why I posted this week. Every person has some struggle that she/he is dealing with, or they will in the future. Those struggles often lead to questioning “Why me?” Those struggles often lead to pain which can be both debilitating and contagious. For whatever reason, I am blessed to be engineered to want to fight this. The question was never, “Why me?” It was always, “Why not me? What makes me so special that I deserve a life free of pain, struggle, or challenges? OK, now how am I going to fight this - for me, my family, my friends, and my community?” That’s why I stepped out 2.5 years ago. That’s why I posted this week. My intent has been to show a more balanced view of what MS is for me (and others?). I was exhausted seeing only the negative side of MS. I hope I showed an honest point of view. Life is neither normal nor abnormal. It is not binary of easy or hard. I hope I never came across as a victim because I have never viewed this in that manner. In many ways, my feelings are the exact opposite. MS has given me new context and perspective. It has given me an opportunity to help others. It has instilled an internal fire to love every moment and the people in my life. #ThisIsMS (Pic is from a rock pile where I first publicly stated I had MS. It’s written on a rock down there… somewhere amongst all the other secrets and proclamations.) --- - Published: 2020-03-13 - Modified: 2020-03-19 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2020/03/ms-awareness-week-2020-day-6-thisisms/ A few weeks ago, I fell while running. It was a nasty fall and worse than I thought. I didn’t fall on the hills. I fell on the flat. It could have been MS. It could have been a root. It could have been dumb luck. After dealing with pain for 2 weeks, I decided to see my team over at @bluetailmedical. I have a torn right meniscus and have been running on it for weeks. Yesterday, they did BMAC on the meniscus. This involves taking my blood and harvesting both fat and bone marrow. That is then injected in the site to rapidly repair it. I am expected to be back to half strength in one week and full strength within 2 weeks. Falling is part of MS. Pain is part of MS. It matters more how I get up and accept a constantly changing new normal. Then, put one step in front of the other. Even if it’s a bit of a hobble. Oh, make no doubt... Leadville 2020 is absolutely on! #ThisIsMS --- - Published: 2020-03-12 - Modified: 2020-03-19 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2020/03/ms-awareness-week-2020-day-5-thisisms/ Husband, father, volunteer, and CEO. These are a few of the roles that define me. My MS is not one of them. #ThisIsMS --- - Published: 2020-03-11 - Modified: 2020-03-19 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2020/03/ms-awareness-week-2020-day-4-thisisms/ GRAPHIC! I don’t want to give the impression that MS is easy for me or anyone. I am blessed & can deal with most of the challenges, including the pain. Sometimes, it rears its head in ways that impact me. But, it’s the commitment to keep fighting that matters most. These pics are from when MS won a battle. My hand was when my brain turned off for a half second. I was on a treadmill running 5:20 pace. The others are from a fall a few weeks ago. I didn’t fall on the hills. It was a flat trail section. In both situations and others, I got back up. Today and this moment are gifts. They are blessings. I might be in pain, but I choose to respect and love this moment. And I fight for the next second, the next minute, and the next day. #ThisIsMS but this is me fighting! --- - Published: 2020-03-10 - Modified: 2020-03-19 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2020/03/ms-awareness-week-2020-day-3-thisisms/ Today was my 200th class at OrangeTheory Fitness. I started 16 months ago to supplement my running & personal trainer. It has forced me to run faster than I usually like. (AO - 11.5+) #ThisIsMS --- - Published: 2020-03-09 - Modified: 2020-03-19 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2020/03/ms-awareness-week-2020-day-2-thisisms/ As part of my treatment, I incur weekly injections. How funny? I once tore apart a treatment room at a doctor’s office when I was a kid because the nurse tried to give me a shot. Today, it’s just part of the process to fight MS. #ThisIsMS --- - Published: 2020-03-08 - Modified: 2020-03-19 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2020/03/ms-awareness-week-2020-day-1-thisisms/ Today is the start of MS Awareness Week. It was a hard decision to become public about having MS for numerous reasons. The biggest was that I wasn’t being authentic. I wasn’t honoring our family mission statement, and I needed to own that. I stepped out to help those who also have MS and those who have given up against the struggles in their lives. I was exhausted from seeing all the bad stories of those with MS. It didn’t tell the full story. It didn’t tell how hard they fought. I didn’t see enough stories about those who are fighting everyday. Sometimes we fall down (figuratively and literally), but sometimes we succeed... and succeed just because we are strong enough to fight. Today’s post is from the end of Leadville 2018. A guy with MS who could have walking stripped from him fought for nearly 30 hours to run 100 miles. Oh, I am headed back again this year. Because... #thisisms --- - Published: 2019-08-13 - Modified: 2019-08-13 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2019/08/why-i-referenced-anne-frank-to-my-kids-as-they-start-school/ --- - Published: 2019-04-14 - Modified: 2019-04-14 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2019/04/from-squishy-to-ultramarathons-the-one-critical-lesson-i-learned/ --- - Published: 2019-02-24 - Modified: 2019-03-17 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2019/02/wim-hof-expedition-post-freeze-recap/ --- - Published: 2019-01-24 - Modified: 2019-01-24 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2019/01/do-you-know-your-100-miles/ --- - Published: 2019-01-07 - Modified: 2019-01-07 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2019/01/stay-on-the-bike-the-one-rule/ --- - Published: 2018-09-04 - Modified: 2018-09-11 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2018/09/leadville-trail-100-race-2018-post-race-report/ --- - Published: 2018-03-26 - Modified: 2018-03-26 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2018/03/instant-email-replies-are-destroying-relationships/ --- - Published: 2018-02-25 - Modified: 2018-02-25 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2018/02/get-off-fucking-email/ --- - Published: 2017-12-29 - Modified: 2017-12-29 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2017/12/tale-two-journals-one-marriage-four-lessons/ --- - Published: 2017-10-25 - Modified: 2017-10-25 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2017/10/want-help-others-default-experience-sharing-cross-line/ --- - Published: 2017-10-09 - Modified: 2017-10-09 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2017/10/feedback-thoughts-qa-oh-multiple-sclerosis/ --- - Published: 2017-09-26 - Modified: 2017-09-26 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2017/09/oh-multiple-sclerosis/ --- - Published: 2017-03-14 - Modified: 2017-03-14 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2017/03/defense-daylight-savings/ --- - Published: 2016-09-05 - Modified: 2017-01-21 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2016/09/leadville-2016-post-race-report/ --- - Published: 2016-02-09 - Modified: 2016-02-09 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2016/02/contegix-volunteer-program-16-in-16/ Up until a few years ago, I had always disliked the charity pictures of a company representative, usually the CEO or President, giving a big (in physical size) check to a charity representative. It seemed the opposite of what I … Read More → --- - Published: 2015-08-31 - Modified: 2015-08-31 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2015/08/leadville-trail-100-recap-why-ill-return-to-leadville/ --- - Published: 2015-08-28 - Modified: 2015-08-28 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2015/08/cloud-understanding-adaptation-are-a-shared-responsibility/ Recently, Forbes published an article on cloud computing, its popularity, and whether it is ready for prime time. While the cloud infrastructure and application markets are currently sized at $33B and $106B, respectively, and are continuing to grow, “ new … Read More → --- - Published: 2015-07-09 - Modified: 2015-07-09 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2015/07/its-the-little-things/ I have lately been thinking about everything we have built at Contegix. We have accelerated the pace of innovation significantly over the past 3 years. The changes are profound and reward our customers daily. I was reminded of this in … Read More → --- - Published: 2015-05-06 - Modified: 2015-05-06 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2015/05/companies-to-admire/ I was recently asked the question “What companies do you admire?” In the technology industry, it would be easy to pick the suspected companies – Apple, Oracle, eBay, Square, Atlassian. Many of these companies started as an idea, developed amazing … Read More → --- - Published: 2014-05-08 - Modified: 2014-05-08 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2014/05/definition-of-service-and-our-industry/ Contegix’s industry has gone through a series of name changes in the past 20 years. We have gone from being called “Internet Service Providers” to “Web Hosting Service Providers”. The “Web” was replaced with “Application” and later dropped as companies … Read More → --- - Published: 2014-03-27 - Modified: 2014-03-27 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2014/03/google-true-leadership-and-the-who-of-a-contegian/ Last month, the New York Times published an op-ed by Thomas Friedman titled “How to Get a Job at Google“. The premise of the article is that Google has reduced its dependency for candidate evaluation around traditional measurements of academic … Read More → --- - Published: 2013-11-15 - Modified: 2013-11-15 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2013/11/customer-complaints-are-healthy/ Having a successful business hopefully means having customer accolades and cheers. It also means customer complaints. Thanks to our amazing staff, we have very few complaints. Our internal scores and feedback mechanisms reiterate the happiness of our customer base. Yet, … Read More → --- - Published: 2013-07-26 - Modified: 2013-07-26 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2013/07/cio-survey-cloud-is-top-priority-costs-in-focus/ Compuware recently commissioned a survey of 468 CIOs. The report, published by Research In Action, showed that nearly 2/3 of respondents named cloud as their top priority. The most interesting and hopeful aspect of this report is that we are … Read More → --- - Published: 2013-04-18 - Modified: 2013-04-18 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2013/04/shall-we-play-a-game/ --- - Published: 2012-11-29 - Modified: 2012-11-29 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2012/11/focus-on-the-five-percent/ For most companies, 95 percent of what they do is what EVERY company has to do – build and service a customer base, human resources, accounts payables, etc. Read More → --- - Published: 2012-11-27 - Modified: 2012-11-27 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2012/11/five-questions-for-family-dinner/ --- - Published: 2012-07-03 - Modified: 2012-07-03 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2012/07/video-how-linux-is-built/ Many people often don’t know how much technology impacts our everyday lives. Read More → --- - Published: 2012-06-20 - Modified: 2012-06-20 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2012/06/children-as-truth-and-inspiration/ --- - Published: 2012-06-19 - Modified: 2012-06-19 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2012/06/the-cloud-and-the-balance-between-cfo-and-ciocto/ One of the most interesting aspects of the rise of cloud the past few years is the balance between the CFO and CIO (or CTO). Read More → --- - Published: 2012-05-29 - Modified: 2012-05-29 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2012/05/ad-redux/ --- - Published: 2012-05-16 - Modified: 2012-05-16 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2012/05/tech-companies-in-saint-louis-going-and-growing/ --- - Published: 2012-04-03 - Modified: 2012-04-03 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2012/04/miracloud-cloudstack-and-the-commitment-to-open-source/ Contegix has always been a service company. We utilize and embrace core, foundational technology to deliver technology as a service for our customers. Read More → --- - Published: 2011-07-12 - Modified: 2011-07-12 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2011/07/a-lesson-on-leadership-from-a-chick-fil-a-manager/ --- - Published: 2011-02-01 - Modified: 2011-02-01 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2011/02/all-begins-with-the-first-ring-or-email/ Trust is a foundational aspect of our relationship with each and every customer. Read More → --- - Published: 2011-01-09 - Modified: 2011-01-09 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2011/01/2011-new-year-resolutions/ --- - Published: 2011-01-09 - Modified: 2011-01-09 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2011/01/dry-how-i-became-healthier-and-lighter-and-experience-a-high-a-few-times-a-week/ --- - Published: 2010-07-29 - Modified: 2010-07-29 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2010/07/a-view-from-the-non-corner-office-programmers-you-need-the-sysadmin-and-vice-versa/ In honor of System Administrator Appreciation Day, I decided to revisit an article from last year regarding the role of system administrators in the world of cloud computing. Read More → --- - Published: 2010-06-15 - Modified: 2010-06-15 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2010/06/daily-grateful-newspaper-delivery/ --- - Published: 2010-06-06 - Modified: 2025-06-24 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2010/06/lifetime-goals-aka-bucket-list/ --- - Published: 2009-11-02 - Modified: 2009-11-02 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2009/11/cloud-templates-what-do-you-want-to-see/ When we began building Contegix, we realized it was always about the applications. Read More → --- - Published: 2009-10-28 - Modified: 2009-10-28 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2009/10/time-to-get-back-to-blogging/ --- - Published: 2008-08-23 - Modified: 2008-08-23 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2008/08/upgraded-to-wordpress-mu-151/ --- - Published: 2008-05-22 - Modified: 2008-05-22 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2008/05/dear-apple-fanatic-lemmings/ --- - Published: 2008-04-29 - Modified: 2008-04-29 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2008/04/ufc-match-iphone-vs-kitchen-floor/ --- - Published: 2008-04-29 - Modified: 2008-04-29 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2008/04/saint-louis-entrepreneurs-where-are-you/ --- - Published: 2008-04-04 - Modified: 2008-04-04 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2008/04/eo-accelerator-company-values/ --- - Published: 2008-03-21 - Modified: 2008-03-21 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2008/03/dear-tivo-we-had-some-good-times-but-i-need-to-move-on/ --- - Published: 2008-02-16 - Modified: 2008-02-16 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2008/02/the-joy-of-travel-or-how-american-airlines-and-marriott-want-to-kill-me/ --- - Published: 2008-01-03 - Modified: 2008-01-03 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2008/01/obama-train-your-campaign-callers-i-am-not-asking-for-your-vote-i-am-asking-for-your-money/ --- - Published: 2007-12-08 - Modified: 2007-12-08 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2007/12/applying-for-a-job-a-how-not-to/ --- - Published: 2007-06-06 - Modified: 2007-06-06 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2007/06/monstercom-spamming-recruiters/ --- - Published: 2007-05-01 - Modified: 2007-05-01 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/2007/05/missing-dog-status-update/ --- --- ## Pages - Published: 2025-07-28 - Modified: 2025-07-28 - URL: https://porterhome.com/matthew/now/ The author shares updates from a vacation in Hilton Head Island, emphasizing family values as his children transition to adulthood. 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