Random Thoughts of Nothingness

  • Net Sum Zero vs. Non-Net Sum Zero: Two Fundamental Belief Systems

    Beliefs shape our reality and influence success and relationships. There are two mindsets: Net Sum Zero (belief in scarcity) and Non-Net Sum Zero (belief in abundance). Net Sum Zero fosters competition and fear; Non-Net Sum Zero embraces mutual success and abundance. Examples from Star Wars and real life illustrate these mindsets. Align with abundance for…

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  • The Pitfalls of Startup Competitions: Grants vs. Equity

    Startup competitions have become a vital component of the entrepreneurial ecosystem, providing nascent businesses with essential funding, mentorship, and visibility. One standout organization in Saint Louis is Arch Grants, which conducts a startup competition where winners receive non-equity grants. As an inaugural judge for Arch Grants, I have seen firsthand the impact of this approach.…

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  • The Future of MS: What Does A Cure Mean & Unintended Consequences 

    The National Multiple Sclerosis Society has been undergoing a leadership change with the retirement of our previous CEO and the appointment of our new CEO (Congrats, Tim!). The new CEO will build on the immense progress made in understanding multiple sclerosis (MS), including its potential links to Epstein-Barr. The confluence of these has caused me…

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  • Suspended Campaign and Gratitude: Navigating Leadership and Integrity

    “We have a debt to those before us and an obligation to those after us. We maximize life and potential through heart, intelligence, and grit. We focus on our bond. We do all of this together because we are always stronger together. Mostest.” – Porter Family Mission Statement For over a decade, our family mission…

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  • The Gift of Reflection: What Happens If You Write Down What Someone Means to You?

    On my youngest child’s 18th birthday, I handed him three small notebooks, continuing a family tradition. For a year, I wrote daily entries reflecting on the recipient, chronicling what I loved and admired about them. I had previously done something similar for my spouse and his siblings. This practice became a personal journey of growth,…

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  • The Power of Giving: Networking Advice for All Ages

    ## The Essence of Networking Recently, I’ve been asked for networking advice by the younger generation, prompting me to reflect on my experiences. Networking, to me, is about connecting with others in meaningful ways that benefit both parties. It’s not just about expanding your professional circle but fostering relationships that enhance your personal and professional…

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  • You Aren’t Micro Managing. You Are Probably F*cking Bullying.

    The author confesses to being a former micromanager and recovering bully. Micromanagers are likened to bullies due to their behavior and impact on others. They are explained through the concepts of “The Disguised Attitude” and “The Blind Attitude,” highlighting their insecurities and impact on team dynamics. The ideal leadership attitude, “The Confident Attitude,” is presented…

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  • The Waiting Game: A Closer Look at In-Office Times

    In healthcare, patients endure excessive waits, with 97% facing over 25 minutes of delay in 2022. This not only heightens anxiety but also erodes precious moments, especially for those with chronic conditions. The healthcare system’s inefficiency challenges professionals’ Hippocratic Oath commitment, creating an ethical dilemma. This post examines the impact of wait times on patient…

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  • The Devil’s Vortex: How To Kill Scaling & Your Soul

    In the ever-evolving landscape of entrepreneurship and leadership, there lurks a hidden peril known as the “Devil’s Vortex.” This daunting phenomenon represents the overwhelming challenges and burnout that leaders and entrepreneurs often face, yet many step into it willingly, unaware of its subtle entrapment. The Devil’s Vortex is more than just a metaphorical hazard; it’s…

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  • Life and Poker: A Parallel in Risk and Strategy

    In conversations with my team and my children, I often draw parallels between the strategies of life and poker. This analogy particularly resonates when discussing the themes of risk-taking and dealing with failure. In the demanding arena of life, much like in professional poker, strategic planning is crucial. Take, for instance, the approach of No…

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